Comments on: Secret No. 44: Just because you sleep there, that doesn’t make you his wife!

By: Filipina Girl

Filipina Girl — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 06:23:23 +0000

I really agree with what you have said that a woman should not act as a wife until she is a wife. Because if they continue to act with this kind and then in the long run the relationship will fail, then it is just a waste of time and effort.

By: Ugochi

Ugochi — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 15:51:32 +0000

lol, how come my icon is that little orange bot? he’s kinda cute…

By: Ugochi

Ugochi — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 15:50:08 +0000

well, what are the limits on what a gf should do?? can u do a post about that? this is all so confusingggggg

By: DanOfSoCal

DanOfSoCal — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 14:43:25 +0000

Looking at this from a man’s perspective, I think you are very, very right in your advice. A lot of guys do not want to get married, period. If a girl is looking for a husband, she needs to quickly separate potential boyfriends into two categories: those that are open to marriage and those that just want to play the field. The latter category should be avoided. There are good men in both categories, and there’s nothing wrong with a guy that does NOT want to get married. But you could waste precious years with the wrong man if you are not careful.

Also, I like your advice about girls avoiding acting like wives until they are wives. There must be some reward for a man when he is married. Don’t give out this gift before you’re married, otherwise the “reward” of marriage will look cheap.

Best regards,

Dan