Comments on: Secret No. 42: First you date that guy and then you marry him!

By: Ugochi

Ugochi — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 02:04:38 +0000

so, come back!

(please, lol)

By: Ugochi

Ugochi — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 02:04:12 +0000

dude! we still need advice! maybe more now than ever

By: Lynette

Lynette — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:55:14 +0000

OMG, this is exactly what goes on in our house… but it could be as simple as walking in the door with a can of diet coke that has two swallows in it and he wants to know where his coke is… totally funny

By: DanOfSoCal

DanOfSoCal — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 01:10:16 +0000

I know where this guy’s coming from. Men are functional animals by nature. We’re also resourceful and independent. Some men “get it,” and naturally take on the caring role for their women and family, while others have to learn it over and over again.

My only advice is not to play the victim by saying “why didn’t you think of me?” You’ll only put him on the defensive, and that will get in the way of open communication. Just tell him that you want to be included next time he buys something that you both use (like a toothbrush). Eventually, he’ll begin to understand that you are both on the same team. Meanwhile, try not to take it personally.

By: Ugochi

Ugochi — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 01:55:45 +0000

i want a fancy toothbrush, too!