Comments on: Secret No. 31: Men and women can’t be friends

By: miah28

miah28 — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 13:46:13 +0000

After reading these blogs I have to say this for your own good. Your a fucking psycho, seek professional help asap.

Not all men are looking for sex and not all women are looking for love. Stop stereotyping people and grow up.

By: BegtoDiffer

BegtoDiffer — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 19:16:54 +0000

I totally disagree with the premise of this blog! While the conceptual info about love and trust is absolutely true, I think it’s ridiculous to think that a man and a woman simply cannot be “just friends.” I live with two guys, and both are in relationships of their own. As far as physical attraction goes, while I can appreciate certain things about each of them, I have no desire to pursue relationships with them (and vice versa). And I can say with absolute certainty that we ARE friends. I have had a lot of guy friends, some who I have been attracted to, and many I have not. Some have been attracted to me, and some haven’t. Most of them are in committed relationships, and every single one of them is my friend.

In any case, I think there are plenty of relationship dynamics that can lead to a friendship situation. Perhaps it’s just not as common as I thought…

By: KonstantinMiller

KonstantinMiller — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 18:22:05 +0000

Hello, can you please post some more information on this topic? I would like to read more.

By: CrisBetewsky

CrisBetewsky — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 18:06:30 +0000

Some of us even don’t realize the importance of this information. What a pity.

By: KelvinMichellesFriend

KelvinMichellesFriend — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 01:29:49 +0000

Hi,

As a bit of a serial dater myself, I have to respectfully disagree. I feel that if there is no attraction on the behalf of at least one of the party, there is a potential for genuine friendship. This can take a number of forms. For example, if a man finds someone he understand, and understands him, yet has a very undesirable trait ( like promiscuity) then there is a possibility of simple friendship.

Maybe there remains attraction on the behalf of one party or the other, but over time that can fade, again in my opinion, into genuine caring.

By: AndrewBoldman

AndrewBoldman — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 15:39:43 +0000

Hi, good post. I have been wondering about this issue,so thanks for posting.

By: KrisBelucci

KrisBelucci — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 16:52:32 +0000

da best. Keep it going! Thank you