Valentine’s day is just around the corner. Commercials and advertisements are on perpetual re-run, on every media channel, telling men to “buy her this,” “send her that,” “indulge her with this,” and “surprise her with that.” With the multitude of programs out there to help men prepare for this holiday, and be ready to surprise her with some sort of gift on hand, I can’t help but notice so many women around me wondering, asking each other, and scrounging for ideas about, what to get HIM this Valentine’s Day.