Hi Ani Ram,
I have been reading your blog for about six months now and I really enjoy it. I almost always agree with the advice you give and I think you are very rationale and see both sides (male and female) well.

I’m going to be 28 in August and my boyfriend just turned

Dear Ani Ram,

My boyfriend and I have been together for about three months and so far we have a great relationship. However, I’m not sure how to handle this one issue. I’ve been invited to two weddings this summer. I asked my boyfriend if he would like to come with me to both weddings and he declined. His reason was that he didn’t know either of the two girls and wouldn’t know anyone there. I thought that it was his boyfriend-duty to

Dear Ani Ram:

My husband and I have been married for 2 years now. You can say that we are very comfortable with each other and have already seen each others best/worst. This week, he did something that I think was inappropriate even at this stage in our relationship!

I will try and make this short. It was Saturday morning and he was making breakfast

Dear Ani Ram,

How do i play it cool when that’s not my nature at all? it feels so fake and dishonest and i feel like it’s a big waste of time. why be someone I’m not? Also, i’ve gotten good at not complaining or being negative around guys but, I don’t have much else to talk about. any suggestions?

-destined to never get married