There’s a ton of relationship advice out there.  From books, to radio, to TV, to the internet, relationship experts are giving advice on how to improve your relationship and impress your mate. So you spend months or years bending over backwards to make sure you are the perfect partner.  It’s no wonder it is hard to get over your mate once a relationship comes to a bust.

I always hear people say “relationships end for a reason” but I never hear anyone talk