Dating is a lot like shopping, and if you don’t make up a list of what you need ahead of time, you’ll probably end up coming home with the wrong item.

I had this epiphany while searching for my mate. If you are ready to get married and you are dating with this purpose in mind then you need to stay focused. The goal is to optimize your search time. This is something I learned early on- the more time you spend with the wrong person the more time it will take you to