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Archive for March, 2009

Watch your mouth!

You are out on a first date with a guy and it’s going great. You are both asking and answering questions. He tells you he’s having a good time. You tell him the same. At the end of the night he tells you he’ll speak to you soon. You tell him you can’t wait and you separate. You start thinking about your next date and planning your relationship. He never calls you again. What went wrong?

There absolutely is such a thing as proper etiquette for a first date, and many women

Oh yeah... they're just friends!

Can men and women just be friends? There’s a reason this is such a popular question. I think the obvious answer is “no,” and the only people that ask this question are those that are looking for excuses to justify their true feelings towards someone of the opposite sex.

To be friends, a man and a woman would need to share genuine love and care for each other without any feelings of attraction. Love and care happen to be two of the three most important components of

Take your stuff with you...

OK, ladies, listen up! There is one basic, yet classic mistake that women make in relationships, that I need bring into the open: leaving your belongings at your boyfriend’s place.

Women do this because they like to leave reminders of themselves. Almost like ensuring that the men will think about them even when they’re not there. Sounds like a sign of insecurity? It is. At least that’s how the men see it! This is not only a mistake,

There's nothing in your pockets, you're just happy to see her!

If you are single then you are already experiencing the difficulty of dating and meeting people in this black hole we still call “the economy”.  So many people have already lost jobs, others are about lose their jobs, and the rest are working with no guarantees.  The last thing on anyone’s mind is their love life.  After all, dating is expensive.

It is common wisdom that it is much more expensive to be a single man than it is to be a single woman After all, men typically pay for dinner,

Don't look back!

There’s a ton of relationship advice out there.  From books, to radio, to TV, to the internet, relationship experts are giving advice on how to improve your relationship and impress your mate. So you spend months or years bending over backwards to make sure you are the perfect partner.  It’s no wonder it is hard to get over your mate once a relationship comes to a bust.

I always hear people say “relationships end for a reason” but I never hear anyone talk

Let him dream about you!Dear Ani Ram,

My boyfriend and I have been together for about three months and so far we have a great relationship. However, I’m not sure how to handle this one issue. I’ve been invited to two weddings this summer. I asked my boyfriend if he would like to come with me to both weddings and he declined. His reason was that he didn’t know either of the two girls and wouldn’t know anyone there. I thought that it was his boyfriend-duty to

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