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Archive for February, 2009

Do you come with an instruction manual?

This post is for the men. Listen up, guys! At some point you’ve all felt that your woman is crazy and that she is overreacting to the most insignificant things. The truth is, you aren’t alone, and she isn’t crazy… you probably just had bad timing!

As a woman, I feel that I am a victim of timing. Sometimes, even my marriage falls victim to timing. Timing is everything and, unfortnately, there is only a 50/50 chance of having good timing when it

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It occurred to me recently that I needed to share my views about online dating with you. What good is online dating advice without online dating? This isn’t just a topic for me. It’s an experience. Here’s another secret: that’s how I met my husband.

It wasn’t that long ago that no one would ever admit that they were on a dating website. Online dating was for people who couldn’t meet someone in person. It was for people who were hiding

No gifts for him!

Valentine’s day is just around the corner. Commercials and advertisements are on perpetual re-run, on every media channel, telling men to “buy her this,” “send her that,” “indulge her with this,” and “surprise her with that.” With the multitude of programs out there to help men prepare for this holiday, and be ready to surprise her with some sort of gift on hand, I can’t help but notice so many women around me wondering, asking each other, and scrounging for ideas about, what to get HIM this Valentine’s Day.

He's a catch!

Building a functional relationship is one of the most difficult challenges that men and women may ever have to face in their lives.  It’s also one of the only challenges that requires full collaboration by both parties.  Going to school, meeting your goals at work, and taking up a hobby are all individual tasks that you could accomplish alone, whether married or single.  Having a functional relationship is not an individual task.  

The more I talk to women who are actively dating, in relationships, or even married,

How many more calories till a six-pack?

This weekend my husband and I went where no conversation should have gone. It started as a discussion about having kids. Having kids makes me think about getting older. Getting older and having kids makes me think about gaining weight. I come to find out that these topics make my husband also think about gaining weight – my weight!

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